🙅‍♀️ When It Doesn’t Feel Right: How to Respond If You’re Uncomfortable Meeting a Buyer

Selling things person-to-person can be efficient and rewarding—but it should never come at the cost of your safety or peace of mind. Whether you’re dealing with an aggressive tone, vague plans, or something that just doesn’t sit right, here’s how to respond when you feel uneasy about meeting a potential buyer.

🧠 1. Trust Your Gut

Your instincts are powerful. If something feels “off,” don’t ignore it.

• It’s okay to cancel a meeting without giving a full explanation.
• You owe no one a transaction—your safety always comes first.

📱 2. Use Neutral, Firm Language

If you need to back out, keep it calm and professional. You might say:

“Hi, I’ve decided not to move forward with this sale. Thanks for your interest.”

Or…

“I’m not available to meet right now. Wishing you all the best.”

Avoid getting pulled into debates or guilt trips. Keep it short and don’t feel pressured to explain your decision.

🏙️ 3. Suggest Safer Alternatives

If you’re unsure but still want to sell, you can propose:

• Meeting in a public location, like a busy café or outside a police station
• Asking to transact via a trusted third-party platform that offers delivery or escrow
• Using secure payment apps instead of cash

If they push back or seem evasive—consider walking away.

💬 4. Bring Someone With You or Share Your Plans

If you do decide to meet:

• Bring a friend
• Let someone know where you’re going and when
• Consider sharing your live location with someone you trust

🚫 5. Report Suspicious Behavior

If someone is being aggressive, overly pushy, or threatening:

• Report them on the platform (Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, etc.)
• Block their number or profile
• Save screenshots in case you need to escalate

Selling should never feel risky. You’re allowed to hit pause or walk away without guilt. Setting boundaries doesn’t make you rude—it makes you smart. 🤝